Your black widow is framing you, setting you up to be murdered or convicted in a court of law for things you have not done.  To help protect you in a legal sense, log everything you do, where you go, who you are with, etc.  If you go to a restaurant, make sure they remember you (in a good way).  You must do this while the black widow is in your life, and is still trying to cause you harm.  If you're an heir, and a suspected black widow may have murdered someone close to you and wants your share of the inheritance, logging everything you do is VERY important.  She will officially accuse you of every possible sick thing she can come up with to eliminate you, or murder you directly or indirectly.

 

Legal Evidence Collecting:

Make sure that all evidence collecting is lawful in your community, because you may have to use it in court.  Check your state laws, dot-gov access is usually online to see exactly what methods are legal (or not legal) to use.  Remember, she is the professional con-artist, you are the amateur victim, DON'T TAKE HER ON WITH YOUR EVIDENCE, she will win.  Instead, keep it in safe places... and continue staying away.

 

Make Copies of your Evidence:

Make three copies of all your evidence and give them to three trusted friends with the understanding that if you die for any reason, no matter how accidental or natural it may look, to give your evidence to the police.

 

Make Her Aware of the Evidence - But Don't Show it to Her:

Is she willing to go over the evidence with you, or you and a counselor?  Watch out, she most likely has many years of experience dealing with evidence.  Sharing it with a counselor, particularly a Christian counselor, will backfire in your face.  Not only will she convince the counselor she is changing, but she will now know exactly what evidence you have against her.  Under no circumstances, unless in court, show it to her.

 

Business Deal Gone Bad:

This professional may look at this as a business deal gone bad, and drop you like a hot potato... however, it has been reported that these perps may also make final arrangements for you, because you discovered her true intentions.

 

She Won't Stay Away:

After you tell her to stay away, and she makes an appearance to your front door, DON'T ANSWER IT, DON'T LET HER IN, hopefully you have already changed your locks.  If you have a way of making an audio/video recordering of her presence, along with the date and time, activate it, then call the police to come and remove her.  Why the recording?  She's a liar, and she is out to destroy you, and she may have already built a case on you.  When the police arrive, she may say you did something to her before they came.  Make sure the recording continues right up to when the police arrive, and can be observed on the tape too.

 

Once You Leave Her, Don't Go Back:

Don't let her convince you she is changing (she isn't), that God knows this, and God has forgiven her.  Hopefully when you hear this, you will be somewhat spider bite proof, and you won't fall for these lines... continue RUNNING.

 

In Closing...

I like to turn negatives into positives.  The negative was my Black Widow experience, the positive is the gained knowledge I can share with others in need of accurate information and true understanding of the Black Widow perp.

 

For those of you that know Jesus:

Trust Him, pray to Him, He will answer your prayers and protect you.