Description of a Black Widow Con-Artist:

A Black Widow is a person that either kills, or destroys their victim's name or character solely to steal their possessions, money, and devastate/destroy them in the process. They create and build a case against their intended victim, so they look justified in whatever actions they take against that person, with the victim totally unaware of what is happening until it's too late. They are masters of deception and manipulation, they are pathological liars and coldly calculating. The Black Widow usually has a few intended victims consecutively and concurrently, each one believing they are the only special person within her life.

 
You're Special, But...

- To your face:
  She tells you the truths you already know about yourself, flattering and uplifting you.
  That you're the only special someone in her life.

- Behind your back:
  She is telling everyone the opposite about your character.
  She is creating and building very negative and degrading stories about you.

- Concurrently: She has other boy friends, all to fall victim to her poisonous plans.
- Consecutively: She is acquiring new victims, whom she plans to meet your planned fate too.

 

Process:

- Gain your trust.
- Instantly falls in love with you after getting an idea of your net worth.
- Know both of you are perfect for each other, and will end up married.
        - Often within a week of meeting you.

- In your home when you're not around, accesses your personal files and collects information on you.
- Acquires court records about you, including divorce, which shows what you are worth.
- Manipulates you to acquire insurance policies, naming her as the sole beneficiary.
- Manipulates you to sign and notarize your Will showing she gets most or all of your assets.
- Assassinates your character to those around you.
- Sends anonymous fax, mail or phone "bullets" to law enforcement
        - advising them of your nonexistent criminal activities.

- Calls in false reports on you to police over the phone, acquiring new case numbers for each.
- Creates and builds a case on you for legal purposes.
        - Including using partial truths to create elaborate lies.

- She takes advantage of unexpected events to make you appear to be some kind of perpetrator.

- She kills you, supposedly in self-defense.

- Or manipulates a "close" friend to murder you, her friend going to jail,
        - and the Black Widow remaining free.
        - and the Black Widow acquiring the assets of both the victim/murderer, and the murder victim.

or

- She frames, then sues you for things you have not done.
- She has cold satisfaction with your destruction, and legally stealing your assets.

 
Friendships End:

- She tells your friends that you are saying bad things about them.
- She tells you that your friends are saying bad things about you too.
- Result, friendships end.

- Old friends that truly know you and are not interested in her for companionship, warn you of her lies.
- Because of your love, you refuse to believe them and remain with her.
- Based on their first-hand knowledge, your friends warn you, "if you remain with her knowing what you know about her, then you deserve whatever happens to you."
 

 
Isolates You:

- She discourages you from making new friends, becoming angry when you do.
- She gets upset at your ability to easily communicate with strangers
        - even accusing you of trying to pick up every woman in sight.
- She states she is unable to make and keep friends, that you are all she needs.
- She tells you that no one else can love you like she does.

 
Playing with Your Memory, Making You Unsure of Yourself

- She says you have done or said negative things.
        - You blow it off, thinking that it may have occurred.

- She even insists you have done or said negative things you know go against your grain.

 

At Work

- If she works with you or knows where you work,
        - she tells you she is sharing with everyone what a great person you are.

- Behind your back:
  She takes every opportunity to tell others what a terrible person you are.
  She cries and/or acts victimized by you to others.
  She goes to your supervisor(s) with reasons to fire you.

- Result:
  You find coworker friends backing off.
  You find coworkers unwilling to work with you.

  Some long-time coworkers that really know you, tell you what she said,
        - but your love blinds you and you remain with her.

  Even your supervisors carefully warn you, you should get away from her.

 
Professionals Around You - Doctors, Counselors, Lawyers & More

- You make the mistake she utilize your excellent doctor, counselor, lawyer and others:
        She destroys your character to them as well.
        You find yourself being treated poorly for unknown reasons.
        You find yourself increasingly isolated.

Recycled Lies

The lies she told you about her ex(s) to get you angry at them, she is also telling others, but your name is attached to them instead.  She is a professional Black Widow con artist, and will utilize the best methods to make her business a success.  Repeating very successful lies, over and over, changing the names to convict the innocent.

 
Ask Her Already Answered Questions

Want to see how good a liar she is?  Ask her questions you already have answers to.  You may be astonished at how well she misleads you.  She can look you in the eye and lie, her body language backing up her lies too.  If you're a Christian, and she says she is one too, put on your runnin' shoes when she uses our Lord to back up her lies.

 
Setting You Up for Destruction

She creates, then builds a case on you that can be used in court, or justify your death.

A master of manipulation, the professional can make you do seemingly innocent things, but is actually setting you up to look like a perpetrator, perhaps recording you every step of the way.

Example From an Actual Case:
- Black Widow is engaged to two (known) male victims concurrently.
        - Fiancé 2 is told that she broke up with Fiancé One.
        - Fiancé 2 is told that fiancé one refuses to leave her alone,
          that he does not want to break up with her.

        - Fiancé One, unaware of fiancé 2's existence,
          remaining in regular communications with her,
          convinces fiancé 2 that fiancé 1 will not leave her alone,
          and is stalking her if he just happens to be looking for her when she is with fiancé 2.

Had She Not Been Discovered, The Following may have Happened:
        - Fiancé Two manipulated into causing harm to Fiancé one.
        - She sues one or both, or she inherits assets from both parties concurrently.
        - The Black Widow would remain free to continue victimizing others.

Example from another Actual Case:
Black Widow seeking to destroy stepson heir, calls police in his home town and convinces them to arrest him.  The S.W.A.T. breaks down his door at his home with guns drawn.

R-U-N:
The warning flags tell you, you need to R-U-N as fast as you can from your suspected Black Widow. Staying with her longer only increases your chances for her to complete evil plans against you.

or

Example from another Actual Case-Victim Takes Charge:
Wealthy Black Widow victim escapee, keeps his black widow under constant paid surveilance, then warns her new victims of her true intentions.

This happened to me, but the black widow victim didn't know that I had already concluded his exwife was a black widow con-artist after just one meeting with her.

It's good to know potential victims can fight back legally, and protect others in the process.

 

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