During my escape process, I searched the Net looking for information on Black Widow con-artists.  All I found were movie references, spider pictures and an excellent site called crimelibrary.com that has articles about convicted Black Widow serial killers.  Well at least the articles helped get some insight on how these people deceive us.  I also met another Black Widow heir/survivor, whose six-year nightmare makes my experience dim by comparision.

These few pages give insight on how these individuals work.  They are the result of many hours of research, advise from knowledgeable retired law-enforcement personnel, and my personal experience.  Once you understand the Methods of Deception, you should Run Away from your Black Widow.  Get as far away from her as you can.  Don't let her woo you back, for her plans for you are not in your best interests.

She is a Professional Con-Artist - You are an Amateur Victim

Don't try to challenge her, she is a professional con-artist, you are an amateur victim and she will win.  She can make any unsuspecting person, from best friend to judge, believe what she wants them to believe about you.  Step back, try to look at the big picture, and don't let her manipulate you into doing anything stupid.  If you don't get away in time, you will either end up in jail and sued by her for things you have not done, or murdered directly by her, or indirectly by a concerned close friend of hers, so she can collect on both of your insurances and more.

The Key Word Here is R-U-N.

 
Spider Food - Are You Edible?

This page shows what qualifies you to be a good target.

The Mind of a Black Widow - Methods of Deception

I don't think I need to explain this page.

Divine-Rod

In my quest to acquire uplifting while I was in the process of escaping my Black Widow, I stumbled across a method of discerning people of the same or similar Black Widow mentality or traits.

F.Y.I.

These pages are informational only.  They are to convince the victim to get away from their alleged black widow and stay away, I hope this will offer a glimmer of light to any fellow victim. This information is free to use and distribute, all I ask is that Blind Faith? Not Here! be retained on each page.

To Fellow Christian Victims

I was astonished, and I felt very special when prayer to our Lord Jesus Christ brought immediate answers, some as quickly as 10-minutes, others 9-hours or more later in perfect timing.  At group Bible studies, when I sought prayer and protection from my Black Widow, I found I did not have to mention her by her name.

Trust Him, pray to Him, He will answer your prayers and protect you.