This person has never heard of the term "Black Widow" and sympathetically listens to your experiences and expertise on the subject.

Personality Two :

This person has never heard of the term "Black Widow" too, but bitingly jokes about the bugs.  Their lack of sensitivity hurts you, but they do not mean to do so.

Personality Three:

Possible Predator, or at least Shared Predator Traits.

This person, male or female, has traits of a con-artist of this type.  When you share your story, they will do one or more of the following:

Run from you, because they know you can see them for what they really are.

These people, respected professionals to non-professionals, will convince others to be wary of you.

Encourage you to destroy your evidence against your Black Widow, because it will make you look bad for keeping it (Yeah-right).

Bash you over the head with the Bible, stating God's wrath is or was upon you for being weak in faith or sinful.

An idividual that has unusual understanding of how a black widow works, uses terminology like, "Oh yeah, they're everywhere!"  She may even share her life story, or latest drama, and now that you're experienced, you will stand back and find she is an obvious Black Widow.  This one you don't even want to keep at arm's length, for survival, you must end any communications with her completely.

WARNING:

It is strongly advised that if you choose to share your story, share it as a third-party observer.  Undiscovered con-artists around you do not need to be educated about the already created lies and false case(s) about you.  These people will build upon these foundations of lies for their own criminal plans against you.

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